Anonymous asked: Hi, i was at a party and hooked up with a good guy friend of mine. During our hookup he kept trying to forcibly have sex with me but i didnt let him. Afterwards it became clear he tried to rape me. How can i deal with him being in my social group, class and life now? My birthday is in two days and i'll see him :( PLease help
i personally think you should try to keep your distance from him and tell someone who is older than you that you trust about what happened. at the end of the day nobody is going to blame you for what happened and you’d be keeping yourself out of further danger if you got some help. good luck and feel free to talk to me again xx
Anonymous asked: My mother banned me from ever having true medicine to help my insomnia because sleeping pills have melatonin in them and I'm apparently not allowed to touch that ever I hope I collapse from exhaustion one day to spite her
there are herbal sleeping pills.. this stuff calle nytol, i took it once and was knock out for 13 hours.. you can just get it over the counter at any supermarket i think. should try it, its pretty good stuff to help you sleep !x
Anonymous asked: My gut feeling is to continue not saying anything like I've done for the past three months
Gut feeling are always right. Its your body telling you the right thing to do. i have ignored my gut feelings so many times and it has lead me to the most devistating situations ehich all could have been avoided. x
Anonymous asked: I've never had a best friend for more than two years, I always drive them away. Thing is, I think I really like my current one. Relationship like. Issue is I've ruined friendships cos of crushes before and she lives on the other side of the country
you run the risk of losing a fruend but also the risk of having a relationship and it not working out because of distance. go with your gut feeling.
Anonymous asked: Can I talk to you?
of course!!! x
Anonymous asked: I just can't do this anymore, I try and work so hard but it doesn't help, nobody even notices me I just can't do this any longer
hey.. i’ve noticed you. carry on, you’re doing great, seriously. you are doing amazing because you are here arent you. And whenever you feel like you’re being ignored you can just message me (maybe even off anon and i wont post it) and i’ll be here to talk to you okay :) x
Anonymous asked: i suffer from bipolar, anxiety, body dysmorphic disorder and depression, i self harm and have and ed but i think im in love. but the boy i love also self harms and has mental health issues and im scared that being with him will make me worse xxx
sometimes its a good thing, you both have eachother to talk to and understand eachother.
but it can be a bad thing if you get eachother down.
it will most likely be a bit of both.
if its meant to be you’ll figure it out.
im sorry that its not very good advice, but this is something you will have to decide, i cant tell you what to do xxx